Social Systems - Group Rules, Rule Groups.

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So We ALL Know That Different People In Our Groups Have Different Things About Them,

There Are Some Things You Say To One Person That Youd NEVER Say To Another,

Theres Some People Who You Can Talk To Seriously And Some Who Are There As Much Loved Entertainment,

There Are Those Who We Are So Hard On And Others Whom We NEVER Confront.



Im A VERY Facetious Person, Ill Do Anything To Avoid Confrontation, I Want To Be Everyones Friend And Ill Do Anything To Keep You Smiling,

But Heres The Thing .. NOT EVERYONE IS LIKE THAT.



Its A Weird Science "Physcogetusedtoyalogy" Or Theres The More Complicated On "Psychosocialinteractivity" Translation - We Learn To Love Our Friends, For Everything They Are, Everything There Not, Everything They Do, Everything They Dont, Everything They Say And Everything They Dont Say - But That Takes Time!



For Example - Imagine The Following People Are In A Group - The Queen Bee, The Queen Bee Equal, The Quiet One, The Boy Whose An All Rounder Etc Etc ..



You Would Never DREAM Of Purposely And Knowingly Annoying The Queen Bee, Because She Will Make You The Least Popular Person In The Group - However You Would Maybe Do It To The All Rounder Or Quiet One, Because You Can, There Passive And There Not Directly Linked To The Top! (I Know Im Making All Friendship Groups Sound Very Corporate And Plastic But Its Just A Funny Way To Describe Them!)

HOWEVER - Clause - You May NOT Do This To The Quiet One Incesently Because They Usually Are In Good Standing With The Queen So If You Get To Them, They Have The Queens Ear! Like Their Advisors!



In The Same Way There Are People You Only Talk To For The Aim Of Having Fun, Other People You Go Too With Problems, You Wouldnt Ask A Stupid Person About Quantum Physics Would You?! Same Principal Really

But Thats A Rather Narrow Analysis, If You Look At It In A Broader Context, You Have To Challenge Social Groups ..

For The Sake Of Discussion, Lets Use The LGBT Community As An Example ..

Boys - Feminine, Whimps, Good Fashion Sense, Wear Makeup, Dress As Women, Like Musicals, Idolize Britney Spears/Madonna/Cher (You Get The Jist) Sex Obsessed, Abnormal, Have High Voices, Want To Work In Entertainment, Have Bad Morals Etc Etc Etc Blah Blah Blah

Girls - Butch, Piercings, Tattoos, Short Hair, Agressive, Boring Style Etc Etc Blah Blah

True, These "Stereotypes" Can Be True And Alot Of Those Characteristics Are Inforced, But With These Preconceptions, You Form An Image That COULD Be Wrong And Usually Is.

Its Applies In ALL Areas Where Something Works As A Group Or Collection Of Individuals ..

My Point Of Course Is, If We Think These Things Then We Become Fooled Into A System - Its Almost Like A Game, It May Take The Rest Of Your Life To Learn The Rules, You Win Some, You Lose Some, Youll Hopefully Make Mistakes To Learn And Grow ..

BUT WHY PLAY GAMES?! I Dont Want To And I Try Not To,

"People And Their Emotions, Opinions, Personalities And Everything They Are Is Not Something To Be Played With, Theyre NOT Our Toys, And You Play Games With Toys"

So I Hope You Saw My Point, I Know This Has Been Quite A LONG Blog But It Had To Be Said, Because Trully ..

If Rules Are Set, We Are Ruled By Them, If Groups Are Formed, We Are Grouped

Get It. Good. Goodbye :)

Tilll nexty time ..

By Martyn S L David
Loves xoxo